7 Oct 2013

Online Dating In Singapore

Thinking back some decades ago, one will agree that online dating was regarded as an unserious way to creating a relationship. Fast forward to this present day and one will observe that virtually everyone (who is active online) has done one form of online dating. The online community is one global environment where we can communicate with anybody from anywhere around the world. Many people believe that nothing good can ever come out of a relationship that is built without physical interactions of those involved. Now here comes the shocker; relationships have been built and will continue to be built through and with online dating!

Online dating in Singapore 
is not any different from other conventional dating media. The principles are basically the same with only a few variations. Having a meaningful conversation with someone through an online dating site is usually much easier than talking to the person in real life. This is because with online dating allows people to hide behind a profile and can confidently say their mind without being intimidated by the other person’s gesture or appearance. You need not be a sex symbol or be a Brad Pitt to score points online. The mystery behind your profile is enough suspense to keep the other person curious, as long as the conversation remains interesting.

As much as we all like to believe that online dating is very easy, I’d like to add that you can spend years online and not find one (you read right – not one!) meaningful relationship. How can it be that complicated? You may ask. Like in all facets of like, if one falls to get the basics right or build a good foundation, with time you’ll watch your plans fall like the great Roman Empire. What exactly should one take note of? I thought you’ll never ask!

As much as we enjoy hiding behind a profile, scoring points online is greatly dependent on the quality of your profile. The details you key in telling a lot about who you are and give the other person a little clue as to how your personality will be. For instance, if your hobbies include things that are mostly carried out indoors like reading, watching movies, playing video games, etc. most likely, you’ll be an introvert that is comfortable being alone in their quiet time. There is absolutely nothing wrong with being an introvert. Many people tend to lie about certain details when building their profiles in order to attract love interest. The truth is, you will only be doing yourself a great deal of burden by trying to live up to your imagined personality.


When you chat, do so with confidence. Make sure to check for writing errors before sending. You may feel it is too stressful but you should remember that you’ll be judged by every word you compose. This is the only way an interested person can get to know or have a slight clue as to who you are. Chat about any subject as long as it does not invade the other person’s privacy. I repeat, make an extra effort to keep the conversation alive at any given time. If you play your cards right, soon you’ll be setting up a real date for both of you to meet. Many people before you have gotten online dating right and, any after you will also. There is therefore no excuse for yours to fail. Take charge!

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